Why is it that we like to receive grades? In our early homeschooling years we took spelling tests each week. My boys delighted in their grades and tried to get all of their words correct. I felt sort of silly about the whole thing though because my younger son who is not a natural speller, would often forget many of the spelling words the next day. He sure felt good about his “A” though and the cute sticker on his paper. I questioned myself, should our education be about us feeling good?
I have several homeschool friends who are overwhelmed grading their children’ s work. This was something I never understood. Grading papers for our family seems like busy work to me for the most part. It sure reminds me of public school. While I was in public school my teachers would grade my paper, give me a final score, and then pass me on to the next level or chapter. Did they ever care that I did not understand the concepts? Was I ever held back in order to learn? Never.
My algebra teacher told me that I was such a nice girl but that I could not do algebra. While in college I began to understand and actually enjoy solving equations. I made frequent visits to the tutoring center…but to my delight, I did end up passing Algebra 2.